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An advertisement from the 1690s, a gap between what you say and what you do, and who ends up with whom

The lonely hearts columns · the speed-dating studies · the platforms · 4 chapters · 10 min read

An advertisement from 1695, a gap between what you say and what you do, and who ends up with whom.

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  1. 01The First AdvertisementOn three centuries of writing down what you want.
  2. 02What You Say You WantOn the gap between your list and your behaviour.
  3. 03The Channel That Took OverOn replacing your friends with a company that is paid by the attempt.
  4. 04Who Ends Up With WhomOn private choices that add up to something nobody chose.